We can see different types of people around us. Many people came to our life for some time and some for lifetime also……. They affect our way of thinking and thoughts as well.
There are so many people who really hurt you or offend you. But you can’t even tell them. After all we used to think that “ time heals all wounds ”………. Anyway, recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about the notion that “time heals all wounds”. As a person who has been mentally and emotionally wounded quite a bit, this thought is something that I often return to, as I’m always curious if it’s true, and in what way. After all, if people are going to keep saying the same stupid thing to you over and over, shouldn’t there be a nugget of reality in there somewhere? Time doesn’t heal you, it distracts you from the pain until you forget about it, and you eventually feel brave enough to let another version of that pain come for you again. I guess that quote is just too big to put on a throw pillow. Always say to yourself whenever get dipressed , Nobody can hurt me without my permission…….
I was surrounded by the people of different mentality. What do I realise that……… something was comman in all they were running for pleasure , ambition , money and fun in order to get prosperity of cherish moment and they used to hide their identity and being fake , to be an icon .The most crucial lesson that I learnt so far…… is that how much time you spend with the person don’t matter but how much you learn from his experiences matters a lot.
We have to change our way of thinking…… As I grown up I realise that people who do something wrong with us their image are fixed in our mind and people who do something positive with us we just forget all about them. How silly we are……. Are we actually doing well ? Obviously NO , a big NO ……..
A person who do anything wrong we called them “ bad ” but actually they are not ……… I’m just trying to say that…. their work is bad . Isn’t their work who made him bad ?…….. If we separate both the things we realise that they are also “ good ” in nature.
We all have a lot of good people around us but in that “ good people ” ….. there are also a people who are “ strange ”……. We can’t examine them . It takes lot of effort and time to know all about them in terms of their attitude towards us , nature and other things …….
We want to stay in touch with our family and friends but we don’t want to be with that people anymore who are not there for us when we are in a problem or some difficulties ……… They are only with us because they are selfish…. And we all know that selfish people are dangerous for our health…..
I know , the stages of our lives have different turning phases , but the reinvigorating moment brought by those people who were stranger to us , so let’s we all say soulfully and heartly big thank you to them for showing us the path……….
We only have one life to live, and we can choose how we play it out. We learn, we grow, we falter, we fail, we make mistakes, but we never have just one chance………. We always have a chance to begin again, to start being who we want to be. We can lose ourselves and find ourselves again……. We can decide we are not the person we want to be, and better that, change that…….. So I will.……..
Life is hard when you think it is, but consider the possibility that you’re doing so much better than you give yourself credit for. Failure allows us to view what went wrong and instantaneously we look to the next venture aware of past mistakes or reflecting back on the previous experience.
If we can’t change the way we read,
How can we change the way we